Woke up this morning, and up pops these words, the
to describe the communication from the beginning to become a professional touch to communicate the deep division of this road several processes, the process of using science to describe a few sword is most fitting that;
the beginning, but also No contact with deep communication, their mind is a blank, of course, is to understand a bunch of psychological knowledge, there are a bunch of hypnosis therapy techniques, but, for the mind field, communication is a blank for the deep, to say that in the no sword in hand sword heart an empty bar;
then, started to communicate on the two courses of deep, filled with joy, wow, this thing is I want to find the answer for many years, how much trouble their long confusion, the teacher of a sudden, my point enough, the wisdom of so many highly complex, the teacher actually, tell us so clearly understood; Moreover, with such a simple language, such a simple technical steps, decomposition to us ;
At this point, the communication of deep communication steps like a teacher, like a sword given to us, and that the two materials, not that Jianpu it? Ever since, a happily picked up in the hands of a sword, began looking for cases to go to communicate, but this time, the teacher the principle, the essence has not really entered into his heart;
that is, At this point our hearts is no sword, but only those communication step according to the teacher, gives step by step to communicate the beginning, but it is, know the communication but not the why; Ever since, begin to communicate the case, ah, touch to the outer soul, how to deal with, meet industry types to how clear, encountered diseases, specific diseases, how to communicate, to how to deal with deceased loved ones encounter, how to bring the case back past lives future. . .
the first phase, you will find a good teacher Meiyi Zhao are used;
Coincidentally, I found that teacher assessment of deep communication is divided into eight parts of the steps; just corresponding to the martial arts Extreme martial arts sword novel, , and do not ah, deep communication is divided into eight parts, but the Magic Power, but it is nine sword style ah? Oh, you forgot, after the test had to communicate teacher, the teacher will ask you to completely let go of all the communication steps, completely emptying himself, as the case guardian spirit, a state that no sword, and this is the ninth sword deep communication, the state is not the sword, not just it? The Magic Power of last resort, if no move is exactly the;
the first stage, a mind free from the sword in hand the sword;
is because, this time is a mind free from the sword, The sword in hand, so the communication will often particularly effective because he himself does not know what to communicate deep, do not know, what effect will this command down, but do not know the steps, why should such a design, less clear is the depth of the deep How deep communication; just know, that is so used, that is, the instructions asked to do so; often this time blunderbus, there is always hit, when the case will be crying, it will release, will be resolved. . . . . . .
because the mind free from the sword, so what is a good sword, sword, let alone brought with Dugujiujian block enemy soldiers; Therefore, at this stage, communication will often particularly successful, feels particularly good, because ah nice sword;
so deep communication and learning the most happy, most happy, the most rewarding is at this stage, and Oh, this time around is chaos sword stabbed, hacked, Then cut a piece of bloody without being aware of;
at this stage if it would be better to miss the scenery behind;
then, is through the exercise slowly, Goutong more and more cases, the heart began to communicate some concepts, and Oh, this communication is the essence of this step, start slowly to some, the essence of slowly integrated into the usual case Goutong into, and began to communicate clearly white, and that is slowly entered, the next stage, which is also the sword in hand sword stage heart;
the second stage, the hands of some heart sword sword;
this time, if you started school placement, and often goes through a very painful process, you're out their own exercises, the more cases of the more communication, greater sense of accomplishment, to the credit class against the greater
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as a senior counselor to the eyes of our so-called communication, the communication level of confidence carried away, the original is useless, because we tend to completely the wrong moves, and has distorted the shape of the not knowing, so this time it is especially painful to correct (and therefore, Lin would recommend us to complete successfully to direct the class credit classes, so communication has not yet formed to implement the basic steps up barrier);
this profound experience, but I was the first time in credit classes, I always thought that I communicate very well, Before the first credit courses and I have already communicated to the 20 cases (200 hours) or more; and every time Goutong end, the case of feedback are very good, while her tough battle cry, while her back past lives, while allow her to resolve the karmic creditors, so that time, I really feel, deep communication on this matter, I can certainly credit classes through one-time, I have a very good communication division of the; truth Yeah, not that way it? Talk about truth, I will say, and that better than anyone else; So, as long as you observe, usually as long as the torrent of students, it is basically a beginner, the more school longer, then less and less ~ ~
However, I really understand? Seems to know, can say, or the mind to know,; logically understand also Burongyia?
So, when I was proud to full therapist there (my first counselor, the Man of Shakespeare teacher, she was a counselor in the most severe one of several coaches), did not expect, Goutong down the first day, it was diffuse Shakespeare teacher, batch useless repetition of the duplications is not enough, the place should not repeat the chaos repeat, cause and effect with clear, spindle deviation from the indiscriminate use of instruction, is the leading cases, the event is incomplete communication to start is not enough, the cut can not cut into the communication is too bureaucratic, not crisp. . . . . .
days, when I was a burst of black eyes, but, how strong must sustain their own appearance, he is not afraid to fight to keep the image, I still smile so abruptly, so sincere and humble shaped and continue to consult;
Last Man Shakespeare teacher, gave me a rating, well, these days you corrected in credit classes, because you have not gone to school placement, the mistake is inevitable, continue to work just fine;
days ~ ~ ~, since that is the communication division has been, and even professional communication than some of my teachers to communicate better, which a Goutong down, the result is actually This is actually good for nothing! I once was into the bottom of hell; confidence was completely trampled into the mud Le;
so many students, is the way through after a credit program to completely fallen in part because of Here the
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credit class, but want to experience a blessing for criticism of the relations counselor?
credit class in the endless variety of strange cases, there is a chair lying on Goutong to laugh, there is a chair lying on Goutong cry, but also on the spot to be touched directly criticize the trainer, but also scolded the spot counseling division; be communicated to a gushing, telling their own stories, and you never interrupted cases; also has a half-day sentence, slowly squeeze the case, her control of time you communicate only 45 minutes, she half-day word, half word, sudden death you; have a shut our eyes to the antenna back to the past life baby, there is communication for a long time can not enter the state cases. . . . . .
also the same case, the same assessment procedures, but A could have, B can have, you can not have the situation; especially when you absolutely sure that you communicate exactly the same as the previous two time;
there, looking at someone, you have been a lot worse than you thought Goutong students, he actually is a credit for another bag, and you is forget a scoreless, Basic steps are also required to actually practice again;
Moreover, an assessment project, you can back and forth a dozen times assessing the situation can not be adopted, some students have each credit class to, but every time, is a credit without;
this time, how do you do? Can not cope, when the machine is next on the spot yourself; under a communication exercise, you may become the case, and on-site surgery; crossing can not, there is a direct escape;
Ever since, there began to criticize the credit class, but also criticized coaches, there began to doubt the technology. . . Anyway, how many people, there are many kinds of reactions;
Therefore, every time down the credit class, a group of students will be automatically eliminated, and since have disappeared; many people, just finished lessons, good communication everywhere to promote deep, moving around to share the deep communication, vowed that they have a professional communication division, and it shows that they have to pre-view, when a division of the professional communication; However, several credit classes down, people disappeared, disappeared, never ever talk about a deep communication;
So, that is credit class, this is cruel place credit class is the highlight of the credit classes and more Credit classes are at the mercy; because, in the credit class, what kind of case you have experienced, and anything you have passed the test, and then pick out the case, you still afraid of what kind of cases he has? If even credit courses are not pass the test, you want to go long on this road? Early as possible to give up the good, the provincial waste of money and energy!
Certification of waiting for you to do, and become a professional communication division, and closing costs so high, and give you encounter does not handle cases not encountered the situation of communication? Deep communication costs so expensive, as the communication division, since you received this communication cost? If not sure, and more polished than the class several times in the credits;
credits in the first class, the teacher of Shakespeare through the monstrous hit, the next few days to communicate, to start full of unimaginative no longer dare to free play, because heart began to change, oh, the original communication is to be so deep communication, oh, the original, and the spindle, the event should start to be defined, but also led, but not waste time, the cut should be crisp but not off the spindle. . .
So began the most painful journey of learning, because the previous communication is denied, against the mess, completely dismissed out of hand, so after the end of the credit courses, there is a period of time, not to to communicate, or though communication, but to begin the full framework of communication, unimaginative full, and this time, I communicate with aura disappeared, became a craftsman will be deep communication, because the placement in the school, I unconsciously put a lot of communication does not belong to the deep integration of the concept are in, such as hypnosis, such as psychoanalysis. . . But honestly, is more than tricks, because nothing really go in depth;
but also so that the heart began to creep forming a sword, every communication, through the coaches to correct , I also see myself against, and view their own who have decided, he is not impatient? Is not and can not cut it? Is not afraid to dig deep and go? Communication is not the case was again dominated? In a communication, how I was;
Then, in each credit class, I'll understand the next phase of my homework, because in the credit class, we can see own seed, its own model; this is another function of credit classes, because every time the credit program is a huge field of total trade; to such a group of students a variety of compression in this space, as we are constantly facing their own soul, his own model, the seed you've got, put in front of everyone, and thus continue to resonance with; Then every soul, usually imperceptible seeds, behavior patterns, it is out easily by shock;
then, credit class is over, many people began to cross each other up about communication with each other clean-up shocks in the credits out of the class were the seeds, which is also credits the class the most lovely place students;
me, is the kind of communication is difficult cases, after the end of the first credit class, was originally an appointment for me to communicate Wang Liping suppress communication division, did not express the seeds But coincidence, what she actually is not the time to communicate with me;
So, no choice,UGG bailey button, I started to face in life, to grow through their own this topic, see their own not the expression of pent-seed, so credit class was over, began to face in life, and to express in life, so start in life, a mighty, and the ups and downs the story; (see, my previous blog, there are records)
credit course in the second it, Genghen, hit two killer type of counselor, one teacher Huang Yi Xin, the other Zhang Lin is a teacher;
credits have been through the last class, after grinding, in life, through constant self-face and clean-up, and slowly heal the confidence of being hit to the bottom, while the expression already started to be expressed, no longer know how to suppress their own, and once again start to rebuild the confidence of communication;
At this point, the hearts of the hands of the sword and the sword began to run slowly, and this time I started again to communicate slowly in handy, at that time I, a communication step for each is very familiar, that is the essence of the beginning of each communication, integration to communication among the ideas slowly, bit by bit, the penetration went in;
Mind Off
By this time, that is, communication step is very familiar with the concept is clear, however, not concentric; heart and mind, do not see or touched, but in communication, counselor but communication from me to see my state of mind; heart and mind, affect my quality of communication became a key factor in the;
Xin Yi in the group of teachers, the Xin Yi under the instruction of my teacher commentaries way always passing at low altitude, the seed is also a clear attempt to look at, anyway, the first few times, determine, and only cut down, not sharply clear seed; Xin Yi at that time I did not like the teacher but on the legend of the Iron Mask, I actually get a credit in her hands, Oh, it is somewhat fortunate; and how she did not actually grant me credit class, I jokingly asked the Xin Yi teacher, how do you hard this time not the legendary ah; Xin Yi with Her smile brings tears consistent, unhurried said to me; anyway see you in the next group, and Zhang Lin in that waiting for you, I will let you a horse;
expected, Zhang Lin to a teacher there, this was a cruel batch;
but I also credit course from this, we see the seeds of its own denial is so serious;
because the counseling division, each correct me, I always want to explain himself, in fact not the case, in fact, I like the intention is, in fact, I understand the mind state of the case, I actually is. . . . . .
do this, let me explain the teacher Zhang Lin, etc. After I explained, she again against me just to explain, I found myself just an excuse, blunt, give me more violent meal negation, criticism was finished, I was more speechless;
granted over, and tell me, because I saw you this is no seed; because you are afraid of being negative, so others a correct you, you can not wait to explain, so I'll give you the opportunity to explain to you, waiting for you I'll give you more complete interpretation of the negative, to see how you do; if you could learn in the next counselor There, when the coaches give you the time to correct, can you listen carefully, listen carefully to understand, having heard them, never explain, just tell her, . . . . .
Mind a lot of people ask me how to test? Tell you the nature of mind is such a test!
Thus, the wound count you vicious, I believe it! Because they know you're right, we know our mistakes can improve the best thing! I changed!
Oh, so the next game, after the end of communication, I will
Oh, but I asked for it; Thus, Zhang Lin teacher bluntly pointed out to me, your communication, I see that you hesitant personality, your instructions to me always feel soft and weak, can you see the seed, no longer hesitate to give me repeat it just kept going; I feel, you can not see the truth, are you afraid of? I do not know what you're afraid of, but not in your past, what happens is you are afraid to face is that you can not see it? You are such a personality, the performance in life is that people will cause chaos kinds of species, emotionally dating another girl that is easy to personalize;
days, Zhang Lin to see how such a quasi-teacher , I did not say anything, she can under the instruction of my way, see the hesitation of my personality, or even inferred, indecision life personality, and even dating another girl that I can easily (at the time behavior is not, but then my heart was indeed such);
time, two of my colleagues are present, they see the teacher comments Zhang Lin is so sharply, there are no good laugh out; this time, I saw the coaches is how to do in life, the result of pushing and fruit, but also pushed by the fruit and the result of three-dimensional view of the cause and effect; the original point of view is that the butterfly ah, had previously been known only in concept, the butterfly's perspective, is now being considered a real insight;
when I was there, like caterpillars, linear, causal link to find cases when the event; from Zhang Lin the teacher, the first time I saw, what is the butterfly-style three-dimensional view of cause and effect, especially in her comment on our communication, I saw how she caught out by an event in the multiple facets of cause and effect to it, so is so clear three-dimensional look at an event, I really was overawed, the original communication can be so;
However, since I also convinced a; of course, stronger, deeper way of communication How do I go;
credit courses after this, I come to find I communicate Wang Liping, bought 30 hours of communication, I would Goutong event that I dare not face, and the results communicate the 10 hours to pass through a; only later found that communication where there are many missing, so angry, his self-communication in a time to every detail, all out, then the face of time, over and over again to go I can not see the face of those few events, and face far enough, then I'll blog on all spread out, so that there will be a later series of >
It is with such self-face, so, in life, I took 15 years and can not do without glasses for such a removed, since I no longer need glasses to hide his state of mind ; because I want to see the truth, I do not want such a superficial life, and I do not want, such ambiguous feelings, and I want to see the truth, do not see the truth, would rather die!
see the truth, would rather die;
Thus, life events one after another, regarded my mind into just the deepest, deepest fears are forced out, so one by one event, and I regarded him one by one face, and then spread out one by one credit each time
class, for me, is grown up in the fire again, and called off a The experience must have this layer of skin should be considered a bar;
and I face in life are those on the sex industry after the species (of course, for sex, I have some deeper point, but now not dug), I began to have a natural mode of communication changes the nature of mind is so improved;
course credit course after the second, I give myself the two issues, one is the face of those who can not see the point in the past, another is to begin to communicate with others, and this is to enhance heart and mind, a very important part, in fact, is simply a face in life;
So I decided to go back to life, and in fact both are the same issue, that is afraid to face, because I did not choose to counselors as my career,cheap UGG boots, of course, partly because they like the job, but On the other hand can not but say that is because of his psychological escape and contact with people, because I has never been good at interpersonal communication, especially in crowded places, I usually know what to do, so I will let themselves many people fled as soon as possible occasion; So, choose the work of counselors, in their own consulting room, each to the cases are asking themselves at every turn is what is called your teacher, anyway, do not to face the unpredictable bunch of people, not the face of these very tough customer;
, of course, is the teacher's words Qiao Xing Zhang Lin I, ? Do you understand the communication skills used in your life? So I decided to face, so I came out from the communication room, and no longer have to persist in not going to Goutong room, Goutong, and began to return to life,UGG boots clearance, back to work, back to earth to repair their own The Mind of the;
I made a good customer service, so also for this cause, the second credit class, I began to entry in the wake center, and started a spiritual consultant and copywriter Le; I began to work in life to face the cases, and in working life to practice one's own nature Liao; then accompany awakening center just three months, the last three months, I traveled together with the awakening;
credit courses until the third time, I began to communicate more smoother, more and more firmly under the directive, and this time, I got left three credits, and diseases, specific diseases, purify the mind a; (although these two credit class was during my communication and communication is almost impossible, but it has begun to re-conscious life, in work to enhance, cultivate one's own nature a)
disease communication is the biggest test of the causal view, the third credit class (reported by 5 days, both times in front of 10 days) in front of two days, I am touched by the case, he started for the period tangled up feeling tired, So this time, how to bring their own cases, the case can not look at causality, and therefore, no accident, I communicate disease, naturally with the mess up;
then, the day to put out the fire, please Sun Min, asked her to help communicate with me (this time just passed the Sun Min credit course assessment), an event an event of communication continues, although the last time because I Guaai Finally, no communication to the core, and thus the end of the communication that night; However, I immediately Qingming whole lot of people (now think about it, if that day, I am not Guaai too late, and so can not go back under the Sun Min, I might directly across, and there may be one way through the credits, and to provincial swinging under the following six months), three days behind the rest of the communication line with the causal indeed very clear that the whole disease, step one, step two is communication is very smooth and very complete, but, communication disorders step three, when to depressed, because the first was the case they do not have the genetic disease, I never communicated because they cause the communication of the disease, so kind of force to seize a cause since the event began to communicate with genetic diseases, with the result is a sub- did not have;
this time I, or the gains and losses on credit a heavy heart, or entangled in that one can ever credits (What is Mind, Here you are);
s After the three credit class, awakening the total center closed, just find the home, once again separated, and had just finished regularization, actually had to leave then; a loss, I am nowhere else to go, take, wish, bring their own communications division that 5 minutes to check the table, and began to wander around the;
away as practical communication division, re-covered with two psychologists, counselors, therapists as hypnosis, began around the lecture (on my own Hypnotherapy to do a live case, I am forced to class it never mentioned the novices, never in front of so many people demonstrate their level of communication I, at that moment, would have immediately become a professional psychotherapy division of the;
So I went directly across the directly become that state, the teacher has to teach us all wishes come true mystery, is to let themselves directly into the state, if I always to internship as a communication to the assessment division, hopes coaches admit that I had passed the level of communication is a professional communication division, that do not know how long I can achieve that br> Oh, this lecture tour around a few months, let me direct a direct crossing of that state of the already; I was already a professional therapist, then, should I need a credit class recognition, why should grant permits a;
because hypnosis courses, the trainees before, even, no matter how confident you get on the ah; say, the mind will affect the mind, as long as when I was hypnotized, showing one o'clock the timid, or, not confident, can not be my student deep into the hypnotic state;
Therefore, several Oh, directly across the university, standing on the podium in his speech that would be a blank mind me;
This is the heart and pay their own post to bring their own maximum return it ~ ~ ~
Therefore, the fourth time in Suzhou, school placement, credits the gains and losses has been difficult to cause ripples in my mind was;
during lectures everywhere, and occasionally I take some of the cases, and This time they did, in fact, fix my heart is the sword, I began to really understand what is cause and effect, and how to bring out cause and effect in the event;
causal view, many of us After a teacher on that class, to understand cause and effect of; and I, to this when it is increasingly clear to understand cause and effect (Lin ark was three, said in mind, to understand cause and effect, at least 50 cases of communication, but to understand the concept of time, at least 100 cases of communication), fun is just in that time, I now connected a few cases of the disease; in the deep inside of communication, communication disorders, is the biggest test of whether the communication division clear causal relationship between a communication step, the concept of causality is not clear if the disease took bad, it is easy with the distortion of communication would not be effective;
So, this time, I slowly began to do heart, the hands of the sword and the sword slowly unity, and this time, I began cautiously to communicate, each basically very stable will communicate;
the next stage: put down the sword, of course, I to admit, this time I communicate, or unimaginative composition too much, but this time, I began to encounter cases, forced me to give up the communication step, started forcing me to put down the sword,
even At some point, even the heart is forcing me to also put down the sword, (here, because to let go of the hands of the sword is also easier, let go of the steps is also easier to communicate, but to pull the sword in mind, completely emptying themselves into the empty state, but also easier said than done?
communication that case a few days in Suzhou, to be honest, I often communicate with painful, sometimes, really hate, how one day, eyes open, at first light? Bright days are ahead of schedule; one up, it immediately starts to communicate, but the case has come, the cost of psychological counseling has been paid, and you even know, this time full of your communication is unimaginative, but you cases can not take it?
can not take ah, so that a few days, every Goutong finished a case, I would just like a serious illness, like depression, communication to the case, I'm about to collapse the whole person, of course, I was forced out of the guardian spirit type of communication, but communication after this there will be gains and losses, or heart, feel that they did not do anything, the event did not deal with, seeds did not clear, or that there would be a sense of guilt;
< br> those days, I just been ill, has a cold, has been cold; anyway, is the spate of cold; Oh, how I may not know why the cold, not that lost, ah, the heart has lost, so my body is cold to the I see;
serious that, I can only communicate to the cases of 5 hours, the rest of the time, all I have just shared with her, I totally can not go on to give her communication, It had been almost empty because I took off;
few days I have to communicate their results, but very, very dissatisfied, I know because I have a mind of gains and losses, because I want to help them communicate better, my mind how communication should have a much deeper communication, communication should be able to achieve what the effect of the framework, so, my communication is its extremely tired had;
Therefore, communication has completed almost six cases Bar (60 hours), just make an appointment also came to an end (of which one case called me, and was even turned down my excuse), my time and effort have been unable to support any longer; tired of the whole person get on the ground fast because the heart has a sword, the sword in the hands also; is because of this, communication will be the very tired; because the communication will be to bring out cause and effect, because the communication will be tried to grab the spindle, because of communication you want to take focus;
Therefore, the following work is to throw away the hands of the sword, but also throw away the hearts of the sword, really a mind free from the sword, no sword in the hands of the realm;
Finally, in Suzhou The credit classes, I began to communicate very stable,UGG boots, and each communication step, such as, diseases and specific diseases, every part I are secure in passage through a step every day, half of the credits are Dangdang steadily gain, and basically there is no ups and downs of the;
had lost my last credit is the communication of spiritual purification and forgiveness; course, this is a cause, here Incidentally, my own deep into the communication, because their hearts are purified, then it is because Wang Liping, cleared me to do the communication industry types, I put down the burden of long, that is why I entered the field of deep communication, and to This moved into today;
so, and I also purify the mind as the communication division of the graduation examination made, in only the last one credit (that is, communication of spiritual purification and forgiveness part) when I have a full credit on the 30-day classes, but this part of the purification of the soul, I never assessment before, of course, I intentionally, because the purification of the mind brought me the biggest change, but also moved up, so I did not touch this part, although I have to ask, have to see how others communicate, but I did not touch this part of the one hand, of course, because purification of the mind has brought me great feelings and change
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