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1, married female 35, daughter 7 years old. height 160, but the skin looks good temperament and slender, the first meeting, many people think that only 20. fu 37, handsome enough to learn wisdom. A few years ago women, will be large part of the essence of attention in young girls who face hardened men and unmarried women, and she have feelings, filed for divorce. At first unwilling women do not care, because her daughter is too small, and the couple had deep feelings for women and men and their families live, such as has been own. All three were caught two or three years. women so traumatized that losing Duirenduishi judgments. When the woman finally decided to divorce, the male bearing in mind the families with children, women and the woman had a good recovery and return. that women marrying men from other provinces for a divorce money.
peace of harmonious married life now, and deep feelings for her daughter. women that the husband has no longer contact with the woman, there is no other ambiguous woman, but did not love and women. Female to male is also No love. Women have two or three suitors, all know that married women, women, money and power than her husband, her husband had leaks, attention, beware. In fact, all women do not got the idea, but not blame, do not accept, not rigid and women did not feel for other men. Female confused: if I lost interest in love, and self-confidence? husband is unable to feel love and fear? women to deepen relationships and her husband, how hard?
the recovery, slow reconstruction, hurried, but also forced not. experienced after the robbery, your marriage should be more reliable. You do not currently feel the power of love, that is look down upon their own needs. sooner or later wake up a sleeping lion. < br> hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
2, 30 men and 31 women, love, married 3 years, 7 years, no children. Last year, men began to mention divorce, said her daughter 7 years has been insufficient, because it is the first woman man, responsible, and women married before . But over the years women have been smart enough and motivated, more and more to get rid of him Guadan numb marriage. Women have long strange these defects exist, why he so suddenly and pull off, but still trying to correct himself. Some time ago M said the truth: he found him before the divorce to mention love, but in the end and my family over his love, because do not want to hurt me, and the woman broke up. as long as I do not divorce, for the time being, and I continue to marriage. Women are doubt, such a marriage is also necessary to continue anyway, should be promptly stop the bar. women love men, but also very traditional, and the woman from the two married sisters, their parents broke the old body and mind, if another daughter In this way, I do not know how to explain?
this marriage, of course, a continued need. First, he was turning back, no matter active passive, because it is turning back. and you also care for his. It is not necessary to force to give up.
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3, 25 female college and high 167 looks good, family monthly income 2K.08 introduced by the same age in men, high monthly income of 170 undergraduate 3K. men honest and dynamic. of female love at first sight. for women, as the GAO has since, So have not talked to her boyfriend, the pressure forced the parents and the men agreed to contact. both families good match. now my mother and male and male parents are required to be engaged in 2009! and I consider my family and his sister have a next higher ; the current men while working PubMed, and exert its utmost to (work in different cities, the target female university town). I used all of their disposable income, sometimes gave his own sister to do the balance of cost of living. if engaged, he came to the city girl graduate school, women are not part of the cost to pay him? along l if a man had she said Tuesday the economic and emotional dependence, a woman will live very tired. r his house working families, the two students must be very tight supply. In this case I also do not get engaged this year?
savings he did not work? He If you right to finance his graduate school, and hello and maintained quickly before the engagement, which Intuit You Xinyan, right? If you worry about this, and his contacts from the beginning of the implementation of AA, he does not accept any gifts, so reach out for help when he can, frankly reject it. But then again, who are on hand tight, he just is not regularly want you to sponsor, finance his chance a few times it anyway, ah, even if the school does good things, poverty reduction support teaching the chanting.
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4, 37 I graduated, now run the company with a partner. wife of 31 junior high school housewives. We know from more than 13 years in the factory, married 9 years, son 7-year-old daughter and 8 months. I got married is responsible, no emotional foundation. normal married life (at themselves, however, strong sexual desire), are less common language , most recently in the Cold War, I feel .2 by 2 children to maintain the family we are very fond of children! Recently I met a beautiful single mother, also has a child, and she felt very good, a bit stuck to the. want a divorce, bear children .
comfort to it, their two children, even if the divorce, at least have to take a child away, and then another component and that unmarried mothers were two child families? you do not feel like drawing of a brain, only to had such a complex life ah?
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5, there is a thing I suck, my husband and I married 3 years, feeling has been very good, no children, her husband was distressed me, and recently I found him qq chat with other girls on the beginning, was a woman take the initiative to give him a yellow film, her husband half-hearted funny man a few words, was I found, no further contact with that person before. Recently, I found He and chat with other girls, but also from another by using qq number less, it is ambiguous, so that other women baby. My heart hurts. ago, is the love of my husband, how he can do? my divorce, he begged me to give him a last chance, and said his heart too much playing, there is no other meaning. Now, my heart like the back of a big rock, heavy, feel her husband is no longer the pain I love my people, grew more and more insecure, ask the sister what do you think along these problems?
cunning fox stole the chickens do not leave clues, fox Simpleton not slip to around can not help but shaking show. you are willing to spend the cunning of the fox, or are willing to spend the lack of eye-fox? So, you know what I mean by this: can not dwell not struggle to forgive to forgive, the days have to Well before the off.
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6, my boyfriend 7 times higher than wages (I have a monthly income of million, earning him 2000). about marriage, I asked after the AA. He did not agree, I said that the do a portion of the common fund, but each also has its own coffers. he does not agree. that there are Chinese families requested property. so I asked him, ? or your wife and you are also required to share property? , 50 to buy enough clothes. is to see you earn more, that can cut him to marry you hard, just want to marry you. we figure if not a man to be our patron, can not take the initiative to do a man's backing it? we married he accidentally by the , that no way, Who we are husband and wife do, but wondering how to rely on our marriage, not a, we are not his mother, do not give him the opportunity to continue to eat the bottle.
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7, and her boyfriend feeling has Well, both 27, marriage, problems in his home. his mother to do business, very capable sturdy, said to be very overbearing. I felt her temper straight, love affairs, doing a one, and in total disregard of others feelings, snob serious. For me good, but no one know very well because of my power and money (and my dad is very kind to be bullied, huh, huh). My boyfriend and I together, which plays not seen his mother do not give him a call, I do not know how to do so much to him, as long as one can not find him to find me, how do I know his son, why did not answer the phone! his mother also likes to call his leadership. And something that is not my boyfriend, directly to me. his mother always felt that her boyfriend did not know nothing, and consequently the advice, but I did not think he will not work.
Second, the house is bought and renovated his home, where his mother has a house their own things into them, to look like a pair of blunt one o'clock, the hostess general (not in the very near his home city, she was able to run to the side). Although the house they bought, but I feel awkward. She does not take me as an outsider, nothing nerve to speak with me. My personality is soft, not the General Assembly refused to others, nor how to deal with the middle of her boyfriend, so I am very Biequ, sometimes I think no matter what, he felt neglect of his family, and pull a big long face. communicating made me feel speak the same language, saying that less than the same track, but they can not tell how an awkward method. This marriage makes me fear, is not what I want too much ?
fact not fucking problem, but you can not accept him and his family. his mother straightforward not mind, a good deal. difficult to deal with one of your standard man, and you do not have common values and principles of life . You even end up married, but also a lot of contradictions, if you can not learn to pardon him and his family, and you in their eyes is a nothing good pretense of himself.
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8, removal of first love, I encountered three men have sexual problems, there are two did not make the other hastily the trouble to never be together. would now like to find marriage partners, but there is fear of another sexual encounter problems of men. how to do?
premarital testing under the pictures. Anyway, you do not have to defend the film.
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9, dating a 35-year-old man know that the man introduced himself divorced, no children and other basic information. read documents that were good exchanges in April. His license was the original unit to deal with drunken car accident, is to have a stable work through, no room. divorced twice. exchanges after further disclosed that he had left treatment of good reasons for the original units. divorced twice, I discovered there are loopholes in his answer, his initiative, said. He told me why, I guess also because he and I were friends years ago, the students. now know him Several colleagues and his brother. Is this reliable? need to contact you? personal feeling two points, dishonest and give up on marriage. only 30 to leave twice, too immature. relations for so long also do not tell me the truth, man is not Kaopu.
honesty is important, however, and away from the 2 1, there is a difference? Some people take back the word, looking for one, had not come, find one, also had not come, nothing more. of course not rule out some people are reckless, always imposing start and dim to a close. and then exchange it for some time, take a look at other issues, he is not often lie.
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10, I introduced to him by others, have been together six months. just beginning to think about personality, a lot of hobbies are the same. a long time, communicate less and less, maybe it is me and a little of his character within reason. He is working, and I'm still something was opening in September, to the time for the two apart, have more than two years, and fewer exchanges. I am worried about our future. I am like a matter of course , life and death is love. and he is a joy, very plain, but sometimes it is inevitable that something was lacking. In particular, they do not speak, I will be uncomfortable, and sometimes feel Mohuazhaohua, he uninteresting. I was reluctant to give up this love, do not give up so keep on going, I also feel tired.
topic sooner or later will be finished, we must learn to accept the routine and dull the emotional life. true and reliable all day So lengthy was before. Also, you do not be the pursuit of intimate feeling, seeing the two separated to the future and who is a person who is harder to say, so why worry now?
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11, immediately to be married, her boyfriend own business, his mother helped him after retirement has been in charge of money, in my request to discuss her boyfriend and his mother, married her boyfriend in January collar wages thousand, in fact, much higher than the monthly income of her boyfriend, I can understand. his mother right now is do not pay, her boyfriend would like to do business with me after marriage, so his mother retired, but his mother does not agree, his mother cried a few times and her boyfriend, and now everything to coax his mother her boyfriend, so her boyfriend soft heart. sister, because my work is private enterprise, not very stable, to resign after marriage and her boyfriend do it together, but also the financial power to back her boyfriend, her boyfriend no opinion, but his mother did not want to hand over power. You How can that I want to let his mother forced her boyfriend to pay right? (to see things from a marriage that his mother no less steal a few years to save money, but did not tell her boyfriend. I do not want marriage, his mother has control of economic power )
If the store is your boyfriend and business investment, you mother should take the initiative to hand over power in your marriage with you, otherwise she is a wise mother is not unreasonable. If this investment in his home shop, huh, you and your mother has always been a man responsible for the management account management, you man is a professional manager, to take monthly salary should be. it depends on who the investors. In fact, if only your mother that you are a man of a child, she carried on the tube, right tube Is the money she could bring another world?
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12, female 20, sophomore. school to have had two emotional experience, are just a few days together, even the hand did not pull had to sub out. I am a sensitive girl, did not feel that there will not be among the possible further development. some time ago had just met online graduate school to work in his city, to know each other through the telephone network, each feel good, but I do not want to see him, because he overqualified, I can not believe my happiness to so easily, even if he said like my inner beauty. We now feel quite sweet, if met, I'm afraid everything into bubble.
you only sophomore, if he love you and your future are remote. So now see the unseen, sweet is not sweet, are confused. play, but also with so really you?
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13, female 30, male 33, married 8 years of a child 4 years old, the feelings can still be. especially to women, capacity-educated than men and strong, but tempered radical. Male boring, talkative, temper, stubborn, stubborn things their opinions, friends less, do not worry about the family, in addition to other income were foreign exchange cost of living women. husband and wife both work, six months can together. a conflict so that more male than female, but some issues remain unresolved. For example, years ago, said that so baby Lord of milk with a baby back home on leave, change of climate, but ready to go when the end of March, Henan hand, foot and mouth disease serious, and the rural poor condition, but also insisted that baby back to the men and women worry about baby transmission, coupled with a throat infection to go before the baby, afraid of the train sicker, did not let baby go. men that women do not respect his opinion, healthy baby girl that is as it should do so, for the Cold War. Women have been advocated to resolve conflicts face to face, man always choose the Cold War. most women can not stand this, confusing. How can you shun Weapon and men get along better, a little less heart trouble?
the treatment of the problem have different views, which is a common marital differences. couple would like to harmony, only patience and compromise to each other. cardinal on the unambiguous, charged with this matter on the little things right.
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14, I 25, to more than a year, opened four stores, although good, but need to continue investment, there is no spare cash. not long acquaintance with his girlfriend on the engagement. her mother confidently say that the conditions have to buy a house our family car, bride price, and engaged to nearly 4 million to give 30,000 when they got married. the so-called fiancee with I am saying is that as long as the catch would ask me to buy holiday gifts. her big sister's two children, her brother, her parents birthday, and she asked me for money. her birthday I give money, but also let me participate, I road 20 minutes away from her, however, she requested the money to beat her card, which I did. can my family including my birthday, but she did ask. she must travel, I gave in two to twenty thousand her, she would not go with me. One time a man like her money, but she went along.
more than a year, almost no greetings, then she asked me not to finish a half months of money to audio, One phone call is for money. She felt I should support her family. We did not used to hold hands. I could not bear to buy a summer T-shirts, clothes drying of red, she a thousand to buy a small dog. Now, I do not give her money, her pitiful that I delayed her, and said she would not delay too poor to feed her, do not want to take the initiative that break off an engagement, because to return the bride price. not one person agreed with me with her, I just want to her good, she told me since the engagement, and I do not think the girls will get this joke, I'm not stupid, a liar, then watch out I'm sure. I should be very typical of this case, I hope you few words to express the view .
she did not fancy you. from scratch, no fancy you. Also, you are nothing in this typical case, because such women and such quasi-partner, are very rare. If you really do not silly to do it by myself break off an engagement bar, bride price is to come back, and her family if the lie, do not give, you on the court, the marriage will help you call the shots.
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15, contacts feel bad after two months, breaking up, the other hypocrisy. now feel very bad for him, not together is easy, although everyone says we do not know each other, but now I did not think about him. elders think we quite right. gap between me and his family, he will pay a higher small business is relatively stable. I do not know whether to continue, now basically still hanging, not just text links to meet the basic good is he and I refused. because their parents (both are intellectuals, not the feudal conservative) rather hope that we and good, some loss. parents think about the future there will be no burden, I do not know my own views. He said to me after breaking up text messaging, a lot of hype promised guarantee what the future listen to me, I love my pain good for my family, not without me, think I, I just hope his future is his class. because we used to see along Bo, after watching his message felt ridiculous, but still want to listen to the next along Analysis.
PS, love the feeling when you believe in yourself, or should adults listen to rational analysis? marriage is not a need to have feelings, no feelings and even some resentment and reluctance, whether because the conditions are right to get married? along does not mean that you should be listening to parents, I do not want to and that people are together, so the contradiction, do not want to be afraid of regret later.
I say obey their parents, is in failing to appreciate our own parents, who found, we should give more consideration to the parents argument. but does not mean you hate this person, but also forced to listen to their parents, then go and what did not end the feelings of his marriage. not necessarily to all the parents who support the good husband, he can only if you accept this person .
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16, 30 male and 32 female, there is a divorcee. male and one female, women are not sterile. men play some debt owed, in men and women living with his ex-wife also intervene, ex-wife left a weeks, the men and women met with his parents. female to male is good, he gave wage (he had no money), and ex-wife because men did not feelings, and ex-wife personality is too strong, independent economy, men alone, they are actually accommodate his ex-wife, said he was tired accommodation. male and female come together in all aspects, male ex-wife too much money to see what all provinces, while the concept of male and female consumption as happiness is like that happy. outsiders say that men without conscience, He said the money and the woman was divorced son. Some women began to waver, now that they still love each other, after all, is the second marriage, should be able to grow old, will not be away from you? men and thoughtful women, women feel Family is more important than money, as long as they good, some bitter, debt does not matter. to find him that the conditions are difficult, he has a formal job (wages are not low), parents have high pensions, only son of a room. temporarily Both male and female adults was quite concerned about the two live together in the ex-wife left, concerns began to hide, there is already May, and officially reside in the man, not receive cards.
Since the interference is successful, then do not Over the past merits further discussion. You now finds he loves you, now have room, why do not you get married, but chose to live together then? other men feel that your description of this very problem. If you owe some men play debt, it should not blame his ex-wife re-see the money, but for his ex-wife value of money, how much debt he was owed more?
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17, I 38,2 years ago, a single divorced man met online small I 2 years old. I am in Beijing, 700 km away from me he was one of the city. We are chatting to, when I was getting divorced, and he said I was single. Then get along very well, but he did not give me promises , saying only that his family too many things, so I patiently wait, and if he remarried, would be me. He has a 9-year-old son, his father a heart attack this year, forced him to remarry (the original to force him to remarry, he has been dragging did not agree), or to disinheritance. he agreed. He told me that he and his ex-wife set a good agreement, so after finishing his father's funeral, and his ex-wife and then divorced. here I am after finishing a divorce (I He remarried after finishing from the date of divorce proceedings are separated by only 4 days). I believe he do?
If his father always use the Do you have a chance? another, do not believe the old man is talent for the children of divorce or a divorce, men choose marriage, is for his own choosing.
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18, I fall in love with her boyfriend for two years . just knew he had just romance, romance is not the reason I do not know, the first time he saw me he said like me. I like him, so make sure the relationship, but also live together. live a long time only to find his selfish self, do not worry I'm feeling. I feel he did not love me! not remember since when, he changed, maybe it is to sleep out the feelings, and he gave me work every day to cook a meal and I go for a walk in the evening bed holding my hand to sleep, even if only holding! that time I feel very happy. was business lost his parents, his brother is not very good, he always wanted to teach his brother to find a good job. do not look at me for several days time, and later along with his mother, his mother a lot of things that are selfish, I suffered for her boyfriend. I began to rarely go to his house to avoid trouble, his family now not to take the money we got married, took the money if , his family no longer turn over the money to do business. now boyfriend ignoring me, is to consider his brother a job, a job he would like to also make some money in addition to his work every day to return to his home, had dinner at his house again my sleep, two run! shun sister, do you think such a man to marry you?
beginning not to warm, then sleep out the feelings of love and light and then later, not to sleep did not, but numb. He now wants the money to his brother's work, and stable relationship with you, of course, do not worry about you. If you want, and he tied firmly to even think about his family buy a house you once lived, why renters do not get married .
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19, how to treat cross-border marriage? female sales 29; Male 34 Middle East and Muslim engineer. due to meet business more than five years, are married. male serious and responsible work, initiative, professionalism, character Overall good, some upright, impatient and machismo, missing some patience. men and women the same attitude towards work, life line, the same vision of life, like-minded. men except in a large company, also started his own business, start of ; female domestic business stability, there is room. male suitors this year, and take the initiative to introduce their family and women know, I hope to return women to settle their matter sorted out. Female scruples, the Middle East political instability, many Muslim rule, female domestic work stability, to He could only cook great country women, sacrifice too much, and I do not know if I can adapt to living abroad, being not stand. men and women are serious on this matter, I hope to give sound advice along smoothly.
married for love in the past, but for the loss of so much love, for I dare not married. If he can stay in China also has almost.
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20, four years ago, 40 men and understanding, I'm the parent, I transferred from the other units , do not know this man very much. The men take the initiative to pursue me, claiming that his wife has been divorced in a foreign country far away, the initial I refused, because I after her divorce with children, afraid to hurt anymore, after all, is one unit. His gentle + solicitude shown to me, so I moved, after careful consideration, to establish a relationship with men. But he would not let the public. Although the process of daily interaction with, but like affair, more and more aggrieved and disturbed me, mentioned several times to break up, Each time he was suffering, and finally, and well, I'm deep into the escape. more than a year later, more serious doubts about his, pressed next and he told me he was married for five years after the transfer field work, meeting a woman in Hubei , careless and have children, for many years women have been affected by stress that they have to report him to the unit. kids three years old (now they have 11 children), he transferred back to Beijing, this woman called his home and threatened his wife divorce . after he Kuku Qiu wife, the wife do not want the matter made public, his wife finally give up the marriage abroad, the matter not known. told me that this, this man tears his face, and I forgive and distressed He and his ex-wife.
Hubei woman he described this very terrible, with marriage, or even playing children. He showed me his marks on the body and briefcase, and said all of the day. He was grateful to his feelings and I hope, I became his benefactor and the angels, so I love him more, more wronged ourselves. In his words is to bite the bullet for his real love. understand that this woman did not work, just graduated from high school, but sooner or later pick up the child all day, his business, a call girl, he would have to go back. He mentioned to this woman broke up, this woman of 100 million, 200 million after also, really gave her the money, this woman and do not go throwing playing, to report him to the Women's Federation and Ji Jianwei. I'm good with him for four years, this women and one almost equal to his license and he and I had a lot of conflict between, does not fit him, and flies extremely bitter. Finally, some time ago this woman hit the company, call me a third party.
I have not seen such a bitch, forty years old, up on the hands, give me a very bad influence, but who do not know who she is. She said, very much in love with this man, men never want to leave her, I do not want to dwell men. I called her to the male, with the confrontation. But the man refused to show up. From the outbreak of the matter until now without any argument, without any contact with me. I learned that the men and women in the face of such slander me Hubei . seriously into the love of a male was in the game. I should not steal the original touch, and I and his people are free to divorce, may, when he has been wronged under the guidance of the living, now black and blue. Soon, I really want to get back at him, I did not do anything wrong, ah, he deceived all my love, and I do not lie to the left, so completely selfless love is hurt. out of this post, I almost collapsed, that is hate, I did not then contact this man. I've been cheated for four years, the last person gave me lie to me a heavy blow. And that woman in the row to my unit, the daily also by phone and text message threats. Soon, you say I What? me how I can punish men cheat?
long, did not answer.
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21, After the break saw a few months along Bo, and ripe. In the past I also think that the former her boyfriend is the only good man, I really think he derailed the days are collapsed. broke up, he said a lot of high-sounding reasons, I also moved to tears, how he would like so well, but he did not think I'm waiting for him to get married. silly, ah, better awareness of the early, found his points to me not to contact other small MM had. but feeling fine, and can thoroughly put down. remind sister, ah, men do not find the next home, will not easily change jobs from you.
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